This is a hard question, but is there ever a feeling of flip side to this?

As someone who writes about my exploration of polyamory, I think this position freeing.

I love what you've written here, and I don't want it to come across any other way. It's lovely and helpful. Being free and self sufficient is... a kind of holiness. It is also self care and care for your loved ones.

But it seems like a lot to put on your shoulders. And I know people who've done this work, and they forget to hold other people accountable because they become so self reliant.

And I wonder if you'd speak to anything that sparks for you on the topic. Thanks for doing the work here.

The pictures you found, and the ones you captured for yourself, are awesome.