I love writing about my relationships and what I learned from the harder ones. This was a good example of looking at your actions and decision making process.

It was cool to read.

"You will not be able to change someone."

Do you think people are capable of change? What was their to love about this person?

Do you think there's anything to learn from his abusive tactics like could you use them in a healthy way because on some level, the love and bonding you shared sounds good.

Sometimes you see couples who don't fight at all and it feels like there is no spark. You hear often about women getting bored with their men ... Is there a way to manufature drama that's not abusive or manipulative but also isn't scripted and without teeth?